She's a Malaysian. Tied up. Loves the city and lives in it. Currently looking for a Marketing job in retailing / fashion / accessories. Calls herself a "young adult" 'cos that's what being 20+ means, right? *grin* . Meet Soniaaka PhoEbe.
WISH LIST
- Have another holiday in Australia!
- More mobile phone credits
- A trenchcoat like jacket
- My Delias's wishlist
- MY to come home
- Cushion to hug (big)
- 17" flat screened desktop
This is my blogchalk: Malaysia, Selangor, Petaling jaya, English, Chinese, Sonia, Female, Singing, performing, organising events, catching up with frens, spending time with loved ones, learning, cycling.
Wednesday, October 03, 2007 :::
Things can go wrong when older-looking fat-ish men try to flirt with younger girls!
How would u know if a GUY is a pervert or just-out-to-flirt-a-little? I do know however, that things could go terribly wrong & that a man would totally screw up a 'friendly' relationship in just 1 minute!
This neighbour of mine (known him for more than 5 yrs), let's name him NPguy [ a not-so-good 'flirt', used to appear desperate-for-girls before he got married, who's a bit rounded, and a non-chinese (not that I got anything against it, me no racist) ] recently offered to spend me dinner, again. Well, sometimes he asks if he could join me (not spend me).
And when NPguy sees me in spaghetti straps & a pair of shorts, his eyes will GLOW, and he'll ask "Wah, so pretty today. Where r u going??". Like... HELLO?? It was JUST normal clothing. Sure, u see more thighs and arms. But did my boobs hang infronta ur face? NO! I didn't even show any cleavage..... Even the boy that was beside him thought this fella liked me (I'm sure it was becos he whispered certain things - like oh, she's pretty/sexy/whatever! - into the boys ears when he saw me about to pass him by). -____- Go back to ur young wife, ask her to wear shorts or something SO THAT u can see all u want, ok? It was just a spaghetti strap for goodness sake.....
Anyway, back to topic... I'm not being "perasan" (overly sensitive) that he's serious about spending me, because obviously outta 10 times he asks, I'm sure 9 times (if not all 10) he was joking! But the thing that makes me want to ignore him (and destroy his ego!) was what happened a couple of days ago.
Like usual, I would just 'laugh' (to 'entertain' him). So recently, when he asked "Hey, u wana go out to eat? Lemme buy u dinner. Let's go". I did the normal thing, and went "Heh-heh". Obviously I smiled while doing that. So it wasn't a totally rude kinda "Heh, u wish!" laugh; but more of a "Heh-heh, that's funny, i know ur joking" laugh. And then, he asked again. So, I gave him the SAME reaction la..
THEN suddenly, he was all happy and went "What did u just do? U smiled? I asked u go dinner with me and u smiled??" =D =D .. He didn't let go -- he asked me again, for the 3rd time (or 4th,5th,6th? I lost count)! "Come la, I buy u dinner, ok? Come la, ok?"... I couldn't believe that he didn't get the hint or something! I tried to be the nicest I can, so I went "Heh - heh" again.
He felt so estatic that I smiled at his offer *AS IF* he melted my heart. U should see him repeating while SLOWLY walking down the stairs & constantly looking up to (at) me: "U see, u smiled again! I asked u to join me for dinner and u smiled!" =DDD ... Seriously. U can straight away feel that he thought he still has the charms & that I might have felt something for him while he effortlessly tried to 'flirt' with me!!!!!
OH, PLEASE!! U didn't and *WOULDN'T* have me feel like I've butterflies in my stomach!!!! *speechless*... Go woo other girls, not me! Practice it on ur somewhat new bride. Try her first & see if she feels something. -_____- ARGHHHH... Feel somewhat grossed out!!
